So since we last spoke we have had our discharge meeting, been changing Leya’s Trache and had loads of support and gifts from friends, family and even people we have never met.
So our first Trache change came for both of us, this was scary, upsetting, hard and massively strange. Dan took the lead and did the first one and was amazing at it. This was the first time we had seen her Stoma let alone pulled the tube out and put it back in again!! It took a couple of times to get it back in but Dan didn’t panic and managed to get there in the end but then she was making a funny noise and we remembered about the introducer. This is a tube that goes inside her Trache so that it doesn’t bend as you put it in but then once in place blocks her airway. Dan quickly whipped it out and all was well again.
So the day after my turn!! I hated it, seeing this whole in my daughters throat again was horrible, she is staring right at me crying while I am putting it back in but it went in lovely but I too forgot the introducer!! Ali our amazing nurse did tell us it would get easier and that we would remember. With all this is wore our little Piglet out!!
On Monday Leya had her first immunisations (very late we know, we have been rather busy 😃). So she has been a little grouchy, sleepy and of her food which isn’t what we need. She has been but on Infatrini which has even more calories and has put a little more weight on which is a step in the right direction!!
We have been in our very own cubicle since Sunday now and have been taking in turns to stay with Leya to get used to the noises or lack of them so both me and Dan are shattered as neither of us have really been sleeping. It is rather quite during the day but now Leya is not attached to anything we can go for walks and she loves this as she is a right nosey little piggy!!
So the discharge meeting was on Tuesday and this was to discuss what we needed when we got home, Leya’s reviews and what was left to do before they could send us home!! It was decided that if everything was in place we could go home early next week!! YAY was our first thought then OMG can we cope???!!! We discussed what equipment we would need and it is A LOT!! We will be coming back every 3 months for a review with her ENT and Paediatric specialist.
This meeting was also rather emotional for us as we were told about Leya’s recovery stats. There is a 50/50 chance that her vocal cords will repair themselves. This was hard to hear especially when we thought that long term meant 5-10years but unfortunately when she is 2 or 3 years old if they haven’t repaired we will then have to make a decision on whether or not an operation on her vocal cords would be the best option.
Finally a meeting was held for Leya’s Journey Not For Profit Organisation. We are in the process of setting this up to raise funds for items that Leya could use, Makaton for our families, friends and young children of Bude to help us be able to communicate with Leya but to also give back to Derriford hospital who have been amazing in diagnosing and treating Leya but also keeping me and Dan sane!!
We have also received gifts from loads of people and some very generous gifts also so we want to say a massive thank you to everyone who has made us feel loved, supported and just generally holding us up!!
Some of friends have also arranged a car boot with many things being donated to the point it has taken over one of their houses!!
So that has been our week so far, we are currently having our community nurse bring over the equipment ready to go home with and she is lovely!! So we have Dan’s parents coming today to drop off more supplied, take supplies home and have cuddles!!
So from us all here at the hospital we hope you have had a good week so far and it continues to amazing!!
Lots of Love Dan, Casey and Leya